Update about B.A.E. of the Week: For fear of my blog turning into one big B.A.E. catalog, I’ll probably post profiles of awesome baes just once every few weeks instead of weekly. Now you’ll be required to read my weird lists and granny viewpoints in between scouting out new best friends or playing matchmaker for your coworker. Not even a little bit sorry.
<<If you already know what B.A.E. of the Week is, you may skip this introduction and head straight to Claire B.’s profile.>>
WHAT IS B.A.E. OF THE WEEK?
B.A.E.= Bachelorettes are Everywhere. Single ladies, you are not alone.
Urban Dictionary definition: Bae– A Danish word for poop. Also used by people on the internet who think it means baby, sweetie etc.
For purposes on Generation grannY, “bae” means the second half of the above definition.
Every few weeks, I will profile a single lady who is a catch. This is not so that guys can come girlfriend shopping on Generation grannY. I promise– the purpose is not to market these women. They are not easy. They are not desperate. Odds are, they will not have even wanted to be featured as the B.A.E. of the Week, but I will have coerced them with promises of alcohol, chocolate, and 10% of any money I ever make with my writing.
The real purpose of the “Bachelorettes are Everywhere” series is to help remind any single sisters reading my blog that you are not alone. You are normal, but in a good way. Nay, you are awesome, and I’ll prove it to you by showing you all of these other awesome females who haven’t found the right guy yet.
B.A.E. of the Week: Claire B.
Nickname(s): Claire Bear, Buff, ClaireBuff
Age: 28 (29 so soon)
What institute of higher learning did/do you attend? Ball State University (BFA), Georgetown University (Masters)
What is your current occupation? Photographer and Marketing Consultant
What is your ultimate career goal? Theatrical marketing for Broadway and the performing arts – I want to keep helping actors and dancers succeed!
What is something you’ve done in life thus far that you’re proud of? I’ve owned my own business for 10 years, and this past fall with my roommate Mallory, I started a new – what I thought was going to be a “side” – personal branding business (niche in Miss America prep), and despite the changing landscape of the Miss America Organization, it has been far more successful than we anticipated!! Both of these things allow me to live in NY (the best place on earth) in the lifestyle I desire.
What do you like to do outside of work? Drink wine with friends. Cook dinner for friends. Drink wine while cooking.
Who was your elementary school crush? Matthew Blevins…3rd Grade…baseball park hahaha
[Editor’s Note: Unclear why a baseball park is mentioned, but the strong laughter at the end really intrigues me]
Did he like you back? He kissed me by the bleachers and then ran away. Unclear.
Do you believe in love at first sight? I don’t really know…I think at the beginning you have a gut feeling of “THIS” or not. But if that gut feeling is love? I’m not quite sure. Whatever it is, there’s always that first feeling you’ll never forget. Sometimes it’s not a rush of o.m.g. l.o.v.e. But it’s more of ..uhhhh what was that?!?
Do you feel ready to get married if you found the right one? Yes. Thought I’d be engaged at 26, married at 27/28, so I’m a little behind my own expectations, but that’s not a disappointing thing. I have a pretty cool life and enjoy sharing it with my friends…just ready to share it with someone else too.
What is the most embarrassing thing you’ve done in the last week? Ehhhh I was on the struggle bus lifting my insanely heavy grocery bags out of the cart at Trader Joe’s yesterday. But luckily in NY, you’re never the most embarrassing person around.
What is the second most embarrassing thing you’ve done in the last week? (You can still be considered a bachelorette even if you’re dating right? Just not yet committed? If so this one could apply…) Got together to watch a movie with a guy and we were wearing matching shirts. Embarrassing? eh not so much, but a little weird? Sure.
What’s one weird thing you do sometimes? Play out complete hypothetical conversations in my head, verbatim. And then think about all the directions it could go. (did I just reveal why I’m single?!)
[Editor’s Note: If this is a reason for singledom, then you may have cracked the code for me, as well.]
Do you try and catch the bouquet at weddings or usually hide from it? Usually casually stand in an area that physics would not even allow a bouquet to reach.
Are you Princess Fiona (Shrek) or Nala (Lion King)? Nala! I’m in the BCEFA (Broadway Cares/Equity Fights Aids] show on the Lion King Broadway stage on Monday, 4/20, and I’m going to be standing on (or near) Pride Rock in the finale…TOTALLY makes me Nala!
What’s your favorite unhealthy food? Mac & Cheese (with peas) – and Kraft, Shannon. None of that Velveeta s***.
[Editor’s Note: This is grounds for a reevaluation of our friendship.]
What’s your least favorite kind of workout? Butt/thighs. What is my most needed kind of workout? Butt/thighs.
Go-to drink: Red wine. Malbec.
Jimmy Fallon or Jimmy Kimmel? Fallon. He’s hilarious and so nice.
[Editor’s Note: Claire is pals with a lot of famous people, including but not limited to Jimmy Fallon, Perez Hilton, and Sutton Foster]
Hugh Jackman or Bradley Cooper? Gahhhhh Hugh Jackman…but I don’t think we’re playing for the same team….hasn’t stopped me before.
[Editor’s Note: #theatrelife]
Favorite physical feature on yourself: Potentially contradicting the above [least favorite workout question]…my legs.
One reason you love being single: I love my friends so much and have a tight-knit group. I love being able to devote a lot of time to them. That’s why whomever I date needs the friend approval and needs to be able to hang with the group, naturally, not just because he wants to make me happy.
B.A.E.s of the Week are required to give me their BFF’s phone number so that I can ask the following questions:
Describe Claire in three words: Compassionate, witty, loyal
Why you think Claire shouldn’t be single: Claire shouldn’t be single because she’s just the best. I know that sounds like BS, but she’s so caring and thoughtful, so funny and always up for a good time! She is the best listener and the best cook– like, seriously. Also, she’s super hot. Did I mention that she’s an amazing cook and she’s super hot?